Written by: Claire Cameron on March 8, 2017
The advance praise for Transforming Memories: Spontaneous Writing Using Loaded Words is pouring in. We wanted to share some of the great things people have been saying.
Note that book is officially out the first week of April, but we can take orders now. Bulk discounts are available and shipping is free on 1-2 copies in the U.S.
About the book:
From different families and from different childhoods, three women remember and speak out about the secrecy, silence, and shame of having an alcoholic parent.
Through spontaneous writing with “loaded words” and person-to-person sharing, three women embarked on a transformative journey in which secretive and painful images and interpretations were exposed to the light, were accepted, and became less painful.
Transforming Memories is a collection of their writings and an invitation to others, whatever their past burdens, to use the technique of spontaneous writing to address their own memories. Readers are encouraged to use the power of spontaneous writing to reveal difficult memories more clearly.
“What a great gift this book will be for readers. Transforming Memories is like a comforting walk with an understanding friend—three friends in fact. The three authors are so brave, so candid, so experienced, and so encouraging in how they work through issues from their own pasts. Their example is a beacon of encouragement for anyone who has experienced challenge or trauma and wants to hunker down to work through their own memories.”
, author of Naked Imperfection and There’s Lead in Your Lipstick
"We each have moments from our past that jolted us from the innocence of childhood into a sometimes unforgiving realty. This is a book of such moments. Through guided writing exercises, the authors do an exceptional job of aiding their readers to write about their moments and, through such writing, find meaning and bring healing to old wounds."
, award-winning author of five adult novels, including her recent bestseller, The Fortunate Brother
"It's miraculous that deep in the human psyche and spirit is a force of healing - waiting, ready to push us towards surprising insights and transformation. With guidance, with intention, we can release this amazing potential. These three wise women - through their honesty, open hearts and wisdom – can be your guides. Let the alchemy begin when the first words appear at the tip of your pen."
, MD, author of The Healing Circle, Chair and CEO of
"What is exciting about this book is that it doesn't just tell us what to do; it shows us with examples coupled with suggestions and prompts. This is memoir in action where the reader will experience intimate stories from the authors’ lives as they make their own discoveries. Perhaps because so much has been shared by the writers, it feels as if a safe space has been created and anyone attempting a similar journey into their past will be held and supported within the suggested structure.
Transforming Memories also points the way to a new way of working. Writing is so often a solitary occupation often enlivened by the environment of a workshop or writing group. In this book is the template for a more collaborative way of working where the therapeutic benefit of writing is immediately shared with fellow writers.
This is a wonderful book that combines the power of personal narrative with a new way to unlock our own stories."
, UK playwright, musician and creative writing tutor
"Transforming Memories is a powerful testimony to the personal transformation that can begin when one finds the courage to take a flying leap across the chasm of isolation and silent self-judgment to a place where curiosity about the self one might become has a chance to flourish. Compassion, for ourselves and for and from others, helps us find that courage. Some embark on this journey of self-realization alone, others, like the authors, find strength in a trusted community. There is no map for this uniquely personal journey, but the authors offer some tools and resources one can use along the way. These are tools that just might enable one, in the words of the poet John O’Donohue, 'To live the life that I would love.'"
, MD, Associate Professor of Medicine, Harvard Medical School and Mount Auburn Hospital; and Medical Director, The Schwartz Center for Compassionate Healthcare